John was my older brother, a label he wore with much honor. John took the older brother responsibility very seriously. I always felt confident and secure knowing John was there. If I had a problem, it was his problem too. He never gave up on me when there were times I gave up on myself.

Part of me wanted to grow out from under his wings, most of me wanted and needed his care, guidance and protection, not to mention his delicious linguini and clam sauce.

John was more than a hero firefighter, a doting husband, a caring father, a loving son, a tireless hockey coach or a protective older brother. He was the cook at the annual family picnic. He was also everyone's "Mr. Fix It". His love for his fellow man and the passion with which he lived his life, I truly admire.

John McAvoy was bigger than life itself (with) shoes many of us could never fill. He was the dream son every parent would cherish. Parents who have a few children say they don't have a favorite. I can easily say that he was the overwhelming favorite, he is my favorite too!!